A year ago, after heartbreak, I devoted my typically boyfriend-oriented Friday evenings to something new: dancing the Argentine Tango.
Since learning to "follow" a little more in my dancing life, I've applied that skill to a few other areas in my life with some success.
Granted, finding love last fall didn't pan out with that man, it set me up to become more involved in some educational endeavors that have now placed me on track to a return to my teaching career.
I tend to want to lead in most aspects of my life, but "leading" by sharing my concerns, irritations, etc. is just not working.
Following a friend's suggestion, I stepped into the role of 'data entry clerk' in the health information management field. I have, for the most part, enjoyed this job, although my desire to return to teaching is always there, waiting to take that step forward.
In one year, I've lost love, found love, lost love again (but retained an amazing friend), networked, worked within the 'system' to get my life's desires again, met new people, said good-bye to several people, and generally followed the lead. Although I don't necessarily enjoy being a 'follower,' sometimes it's in the footsteps of others that we begin to understand them, their struggles, and all that we have in common. I can then take this knowledge and use it in ways that help me and those around me. I've begun teaching online, I volunteered a bit at the HIV center, I started a new job, I've performed music quite a bit, and I've gathered what appears to be an army to help in my fight to return to my career (doctors, therapists, social workers, insurance personnel, educators, and family). I even interviewed for a new teaching position and I am keeping my fingers crossed!
Tomorrow, my boyfriend and I (and one of my newer friends) will be embarking on a new Argentine Tango
journey. I hope that it builds more steps forward into my own personal journey, both in life and in love. If the fun, flirty leg kicks aren't enough, perhaps I'll venture down the street sometime and see if the Salsa will bring a little more spice into my life.
